“BROKEN”

I was strength,
I was loving,
I was smart,
I was sufficient; a business owner,
I was growth, responsible; a great provider,
I was independent; ALWAYS able to take care of “myself”,
I was nurturing and giving,
A “selfLESS” person,
My heart was open; my love was as free as the wind
I was light,
I was reliable, trustworthy, and known for having a big heart;
Someone that simply loves children…
I was …A WOMAN

Until, –I MET WILTO ANGERVIL, HIS KIDS AND MIGELE PHILIPPE.  I became,

Lonely,
Lost,
Invisible,
Used,
Alienated,
Accused,
Forgotten,
Shunned,
Deprived,
A Motherless-stepmom,
Jilted,
Gas-lighted,

Through it all, –I was publicly,

Humiliated,
Dishonored,
Cheated on,
Defamed,
Slandered,
Called Bipolar, OCD, Conniving, Evil, Manipulative; a Vindictive Woman and for the sake of U.S. Immigration & VAWA, –An Abuser

I was,

A phenomenal Wife; (his help-meet)
A fun, silly, caring and adventurous Stepmom, –these were my babies, I were to adopt them…(It was all a con; all lies).

I became,

A Tool,
A Means to an end,
His Money Machine,
His Way to U.S. Citizenship,
His Maid, his Kids Mom, His Cook, His Problem Solver, His Nurse, –His Everything,
I was hanging by a withering thread,
My mind was numb, my soul was lost,
My dreams, –shattered,

For 7 years,

I suffered in silence with depression, I was alone, barely surviving PTSD; constant anxiety and fearing for my life. My home, was my prison; I was being emotionally tortured by this man’s never-ending harassment; the unbelief of knowing that the injustice; the emotional, psychological and financial rape that this man was doing to me was “REAL!” IT IS REAL!”

Henry County Police “refused” to investigate him,–they treated me like I was some scorned ex-wife.
The Court didn’t want to even review the evidence when presented and having no one to believe me; to even look into this,–was “pure hell”.

This man and his accomplices caused me my livelihood, my peace of mind; (I no longer know what’s real and what is not–anymore; whose genuine with me or not); he stole my confidence and “WHO I AM”.

But thank God, I AM “My Moma’s Child” and though she did a lot wrong, she taught me one important thing that was right, –how to put my “trust” in God, and to have “faith” that “HE WILL” bring everything that’s in the darkness, –to the light.

WILTO ANGERVIL IS,

a man of deceit; “HE IS” an Unemphatic-Narcissistic-Sociopath:

  • has a sense of superiority and feels the need to control; (exaggerates everything)
  • possesses a sense of entitlement and expects favorable treatment
  • exploits other people to achieve personal goals
  • lacks empathy regarding the needs and feelings of other people
  • is envious of other people; accomplishments; has a jealous streak if “he IS NOT the focus”;
  • has arrogant behaviors and attitudes
  • trouble handling criticism
  • easily become impatient or angry if they don’t think they are being treated correctly
  • feel easily slighted and has relationship problems
  • tries to belittle others when he doesn’t get his way
  • has trouble regulating his reckless behavior and emotions
  • trouble adapting to change and dealing with stress
  • engages in deceitfulness (lying, using aliases, not paying off debts)
  • impulsivity and not planning ahead
  • reckless disregard or concern for the safety of other people
  • chronic irresponsibility reflected by a continued failure to maintain a job, finish school, or stay on top of financial commitments
  • lacks of remorse about hurting others

He has and is using me to gain U.S. Citizenship so that he can remain in this country.  He has hurt me when I refused to (allow him) to take advantage of me. In the end, it was clear, that this man, had broken me

“…BUT GOD…”

“MY FAITH” was strong…
My wait was long and my patience was tested.
“I BECAME HOPE”,
I am knowledge,
I am discernment,
I am surviving,
I am “TRUTH”,

I WAS…
I AM…

“BROKEN”

 

“I Truly Fell In Love”,

I Was Conned Into Marriage by a Green Card Scammer


The phrase my Scammer used on me over and over again was of hope and expectation; whenever I felt like something was wrong, or when I felt like walking away he’d find just the right words to sway me back into his web; –he sold me “a dream”; mental security of what was to come.
 
I lived for it, I earned it, I did “the most” with everything I could contribute.  Emotionally, Monetarily,–
I worked hard for it and “ALWAYS” looked forward to it.  Imagine, being told,
 
“Tonya, don’t leave…I thought you said you wanted to grow old together.”
“You Are MY RESPONSIBILITY and I LOVE YOU
“I thought WE AGREED THAT WE WILL ALWAYS FIGHT TO STAY TOGETHER, we will grow old together believe that”
Every time he wanted me to do, provide or give him money…(here comes that phrase again)…
“Don’t you want to grow old together?”
 
ALWAYS!
ALWAYS!
ALWAYS!
Filling my head with those lies, “HIS TRICKERY”; “HIS MANIPULATION” conning me into doing what “HE NEEDED” “WHAT HE WANTED” (HIS GREEN-CARD) by dangling in my face, the “HOPE AND DREAM” of everything “HE KNEW” I wanted and expected.
  • Love
  • Togetherness
  • Longevity
  • Respect
  • Affection
  • Consideration
  • Trust
  • Loyalty

THE SET UP

The VERY NEXT MORNING, I GET THIS TEXT FROM HIM….

NEXT THING I KNOW….I GET AN EMAIL FROM HIS “IMMIGRATION ATTORNEY” stating that HE AND I ARE GETTING A DIVORCE…(HA!  Wow!  WOW!!!!!)  HOW CONVENIENT.  mmm…mmm

And to top it off, SPELL JARS were found up in my den…when I was packing up his things, behind the ottoman in a jar was a bunch of trash and red substance floating around in a mason jar.  My first thought was, “why in the hell does he have food upstairs behind the furniture…???”  Then it hit me….OMG!!!!   (I wouldn’t be surprised if he didn’t use Voodoo to get me.) 

THIS EVIL HAITIAN HERE!!!!!

IMMIGRATION MARRIAGE FRAUD IS REAL IN THE UNITED STATES. HOWEVER, RARELY ENFORCED.  THE LOOP HOLE FOR THAT,—VAWA!!!

Testimonials

Please Watch:
Greg’s Story – Scam victims left broke and brokenhearted  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9UKbefZKlz0&feature=youtu.be&fbclid=IwAR01y3JK4KiR5mpMxXcyr3s-xqGPbvauak91JkSnwwswxuyHGya0gUzllHc

Audry’s Story – Romance Scam – Crime Watch Daily – https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z9u4-sK8h5c – (They get you to TRUST AND FALL IN LOVE WITH THEM)

(This happened to Greg, it happened to Audry it happened to me…It could definitely happen to you.  BEFORE getting involved Romantically with a Foreigner (unfortunately, you need to have them vetted, –PERIOD!)  I didn’t do that because I didn’t know his type of scam existed, now that I do…HELP ONE, TEACH ONE.  DO YOUR HOMEWORK!

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“I share the same experience.   I married a man that convinced me that I was the apple of his eye. Everything I thought he was as a husband was all built on one lie…citizenship into the United States.  I was devastated, embarrassed among my peers, he cleared out our bank account and one morning, he was gone.
-Kellie M

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My marriage, my hopes, and peace were all stolen from me.  U.S.C.I.S. didn’t help, no other organization would help, talking about it made me seem crazy so I suffered alone.  My Mom and sister wanted to support me but it was deeper than anything they could imagine.  They could never understand. I’m glad I found this site maybe now I won’t feel so alone in what happened to me.  Let’s heal together.
-Katie Z

 

“I was duped by a Jordanian who abused me every day for years and two weeks after he got his citizenship he filed for divorce. The whole time he cheated on me. I tried to get help and no one cares. Insult to injury.”
-Heather D

 

Hello, I was married for less than 6 months. We applied for his Green Card in March and he left when he received his cards in June. Unfortunately, I was the only one who took our vows seriously. I have put in a petition for Annulment with the courts. I will not stop until I have a declaration of annulment. For real this is disgusting for any human to do to another. What is worse there is no help for myself who is a born US citizen. I’m a disabled nurse that has healed, helped and shown love to many. We all want love and I was gullible to believe he really cared. Not only that but now I might lose money from my disability pay because he won’t bring SS his proof of new address. Something has to change with the laws! Please, any advice welcomed and any help would be greatly appreciated!!! Thanks
-Crystal M(